If you haven’t seen the movie “How To Lose A Guy in 10 Days”, I’d recommend checking it out. It’s a funny, romantic comedy about a girl who tries to “lose” a guy in 10 days for the purpose of an article she’s writing. Its funny to see what the main character thinks will upset the guys she’s with enough that he’ll break up with her. Turns out, as you can imagine, that he isn’t so easy to … Read More
When I use the word player, I mean a guy who isn’t serious about a long-lasting relationship. He enjoys the thrill of the chase, he enjoys the excitement of budding love, and he works hard to get passed the proverbial front gate to enjoy the physical aspects of love and dating. Once he’s gotten what he wants though, he’s usually out the door and on to his next conquest. Players tend not to make great boyfriends. There are certai… Read More
How often do you hear a girlfriend complain: "I'm done with dating. All guys are jerks and it's just so tough out there. No guy wants to be committed. They are all selfish." Etc. etc. etc.
Well, while I think it's harder for women to find the right match than for men, it's also up to the women to realize that they need to focus more strongly on what they desire.
What does it mean? It means that if you're ready to be in a serious relationship, don't waste time on men w… Read More
I’ve often been asked this question: Do men like round/curvy women or slender small-featured women better? Well, obviously I can’t answer this question on behalf of every man – however I can say that an increasing number of men out there would prefer a curvy woman to a slender one. Why, you might be wondering…well it is actually pretty simple.
Deep down in a man’s brain, I mean way deep down in the primal urge quadrant, men ha… Read More
Its that time of year again folks. The time of year when you stress out over what to get your boyfriend or girlfriend for the holidays. Now, every once in a while, the perfect gift will serendipitously present itself, making your holiday sooo much easier. However, for most years that isn’t the case. If you are anything like me, buying presents, for anyone really, can be a stressful activity. So, Stella is here to make it a little easier for you all this year,… Read More
Its that time of year again folks. The time of year when you stress out over what to get your boyfriend or girlfriend for the holidays. Now, every once in a while, the perfect gift will serendipitously present itself, making your holiday sooo much easier. However, for most years that isn’t the case. If you are anything like me, buying presents, for anyone really, can be a stressful activity. So, Stella is here to make it a littl… Read More
If there's one pet peeve many women have is cheap men. Somehow they always find ways to rationalize their cheapness away - and usually at the expense of others.
To me, that says a lot about someone's character. Someone who's not generous with money, often isn't generous with emotions and openness.
For the longest time I felt guilty because I expected guys to be generous and I thought that my expectation would mean I'm a gold digger. But by no means do I think I … Read More
Most of us have gone on dates before, online dating or otherwise. Actually, I would imagine that nearly all of us have. A Friday or Saturday night. Dinner and a Movie. Sound familiar? It’s the common and typical dating recipe. It is the perfect combination of function and flair. By that I mean that a dinner/movie date provides time for the “getting to know you” stage (function), and it allows for some excitemen… Read More
Dating Tips: So you’ve met this wonderful man/woman through a mutual friend or perhaps from doing a little online dating. This person is just fantastic. Great personality, great looks, funny, caring – the whole package. You’ve been seeing a lot of one another the past few weeks and everything seems to be going smoothly. There isn’t any label on it yet, but you assume that before too long the both of you will cease to be singles and will begin … Read More