In my experience, guys in this situation feel that they have the upper hand. They get the "relationship" part of you when they want it - but aren't tied down. They're getting the best of both worlds, in a sense. When they want you, you're there for them. When they don't want you, well in their minds the two of you are just friends. You need to give him an ultimatum. If he feels strongly about being with you, then he needs to make some moves. If not, then maybe you two need some time apart.
If you haven’t seen the movie “How To Lose A Guy in 10 Days”, I’d recommend checking it out. It’s a funny, romantic comedy about a girl who tries to “lose” a guy in 10 days for the purpose of an article she’s w… Read More ›